Why I Think Porn is Okay.

Personally, I think porn is given a bad rep, and I’m going to explain why in a few simple points.

  1. Many different types of women are represented in the porn industry.
  2. We ladies are just as guilty for holding “unrealistic ideals” for men as those men are for us.
  3. Porn is not impacting your ability to get laid by a real man.

So for my first point, you naysayers are gonna be thinking, “Gurl, you on crack. It’s all skinny, big-boobed women in porn.” But you would be incorrect. While on the surface, porn does seem to be dominated (pun) but disproportionately large boobies, you have to realize that in reality, men have a very wide range of… interests. There is porn out there featuring women with very small boobs. There are entire websites dedicated to large women eating. That is a job. Eating for legit food fetishists. For pretty much any given body type, BMI, and cup size, there is a man who gets off on that. There is a man who gets off on women who look just like you.

As for the second point, it’s time to come clean. While a lot of women deny ever having watched porn or even masturbated, condemning pornographic images as “sick” and even damaging to men, how many women out there have ever fantasized about going out (or going to bed) with Ryan Gosling, or even worse (read: better), Hot Neville Longbottom? If Pinterest doesn’t prove it, then I simply do not know what does, and I can tell you that just about everybody I follow on the P is guilty of having an entire board dedicated solely to chiseled jaws and abs. Now, ladies, we’re all very casual about ab-viewing, it’s all very innocent, but if porn is creating an unrealistic picture of the “ideal women” in the minds of our young men, then let’s cut the crap and admit that most young women have a pretty unrealistic idea of the “ideal man”. Young men are increasingly subjected to a lot of the same pressure to look “good” that we’ve been complaining about for years. And it’s our fault. While we all claim to value a sense of humor over good looks, a lot of us are guilty of completely ignoring your typical nice, funny guy in favor of jaw-droppingly gorgeous douchebags.

On a personal note, however, as much as I like looking at chiseled abs, I also really have a thing for Jonah Hill. Adorably chubby is kinda my type, as evidenced by my real life hunnyboo. Which brings me to my third point: There are REAL MEN out there, porn-watching and not, who think you’re amazing, and who want to spend time with you doing all manner of things—ice skating, getting Chinese food, and also sleeping with you. The thing is, he’s probably not “perfect”. Maybe he’s not going to have an eight pack, or eyes that smolder. Maybe he’s going to be a little socially awkward, or maybe your friends think he’s “weird” at first. He might not share your passion for the BBC, or for water skiing. But all that is okay, because he will appreciate you, he will respect your interests, he will think that you’re absolutely beautiful, and you two will have so much fun watching porn together.

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